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WHERE MUSIC LIGHT AND GEAR ARE ONE

Don't Tell Mum!

Since 2022, twice a year, our fetish kingdom becomes yours. Don’t Tell Mum! isn’t just a brand or a club—it’s a ritual.

We blend light, fog, visuals, and music to craft immersive spaces where kinksters can thrive. Whether you’re here to dance, vibe, socialize, kiss, or cruise, this is your space to be yourself and have fun.

Just remember: Don’t Tell Mum!

RULES

FULL GEAR

Gear is not an option. It's a language. It's an extension of your soul.

TECHNO

Music is the answer. Techno is the solution.

FETISH

We celebrate subcultures. Whether you're a drone enthusiast, gimp, MX biker, or part of any other, you're welcome.

RESPECT

No kink shaming. Respect is mandatory. Consent is the key. Nudity and Sex are reserved to the dedicated areas.

SAFETY

No chems, no drugs, no tequila chupitos if you can't ever say your name, no loss of control. Our angels are here, please take care of each others.

COMMUNITY

All gender are welcome. YOU are welcome. Age doesn't matter. Abs doesn't matter. Leave judgments and beliefs at the door.

LAST PICTURES

ARTISTS

DJs // Open your ears and listen to the sound of DTM

TED MURVOL +

His career began in the 90’s and is guided by his love of house music. Also known as @djlittlenemo, his outstanding musical culture will drive you in a crazy techno trip.
Creator of the YouTube Channel @histoireselectroniques , a reference in the electronic music scene

WESLEY ELASH +

Proud dad of @donttellmum.party
Techno digger. No uptempo.
Also playing for Recon Paris, Darklands and other fetish parties in France, Belgium & Germany

PERFORMERS // DTM is a stage for night creatures

MATTHIAS COLT +

Choreographer and Artist, leading sensuality and fetish to a symbiosis.
Also comedian and singer, about to release his first short film as a director

PURPOLE +

Queer artist with a camp, decadent, and glam-trash aesthetic, born between the excesses of Y2K pop and the electric nights of underground cultures.
Between fishnets, sky-high heels, and provocative energy, they transform pole dancing into a spectacle where physical power, sensuality, and theatricality celebrate the euphoria of endless nights.

CREW

Created and led by Wesley Elash and his team, DTM was born out of a simple yet powerful need: to provide safe, inclusive spaces for fetish communities across France.

At DTM, we celebrate freedom, diversity, and self-expression. Our events are designed to be a judgment-free zone where you can fully embrace your identity.

Every edition of our party is a testament to our commitment to safety, respect, and unforgettable experiences.

Behind the scenes, our dedicated bartenders, technicians, angels, security teams, and door staff work tirelessly to ensure that every guest can enjoy the night in a secure and welcoming environment.

None of this would be possible without the support of our partners, who share our vision of fostering a vibrant, inclusive community.

Join us at the next DTM event! where freedom meets community.

Need to talk to the DTM crew? Send us a DM on instagram or an email : wesley@donttellmum.party

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